I believe all of us are made equal. If you're very not very good-looking, then chances are you are quite smart. If you are not so smart and not so good-looking, like me, chances are you have a good husband or something else to trade things off.
So why are some pple happier than others? I believe we all have our fair share of ups and downs in life but the bottomline is: what do you choose to remember? When something bad happens, do you choose to wallow in self-pity or do you take it as an opportunity to make yourself stronger? When something good happens to you, do you just take it for granted or do you really treasure it?
So why are some blogs so happy and why are others so depressing? Again, I think that goes back to what you choose to capture, remember, appreciate, treasure.. heard about the phrase "self-fulfilling prophecy"? If you want to happy, you can. It's a personal choice. So why dont you make the choice today? Let the theme of your blog be one of happiness, joy and love..
3 comments:
Well said!! Totally agree with you! HaPPINESS IS A CHOICE. you are the author of your life story.
This reminds me of a story at a friend shared with me yesterday. Is her life story. Goes like this:
age 1-10 - live like a princess
age 10 - family went bankrupt
age 10-16 - no love from mother
age 16 - committed suicide but did not die. Decided to lead a life that is happy and not destructive anymore
age 18 - got a scholarship, studied abroad
age 20 - got her own business but still burdened with family expenses and no love
age 26 - married and started her expat life. Still being treated unfairly by her mum
age 34 - pregnant and happy
There are many details that I cannot capture in this story but the ultimate point is at age 16, she decided that she must do herself a favour; to live happy and to the fullest against all odds. As for her relationship with her mum, she decides she will just do what she can as a daughter cos she doesn't want any regrets later on and her have's in her life, she has learnt to treasure them more.
well say... i believed its ur life... ppl can't change it except urself... if u decided to make it a sad one.. it will be sad... if u decided to make it happy, it will be a happy one...
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